Is it that bad to hope for the fairytale ending even though you know it doesn’t exist?

You can’t keep blaming others for your issues. Its so much easier to say its someone else’s fault than to actually accept that you could have something to do with it. Nobody’s saying oh blame yourself for everything. But at the end of the day regardless of who’s ‘fault’ it is if you don’t accept that its your life & your problem you’ll never fix anything. You’ll continue to let bad life experiences define you & you’ll be stuck in a never ending cycle. Take charge of your life & don’t put yourself at a disadvantage before you even start ‘living’

Give so much time to improving yourself that you don’t have time to criticize others.